Do you think your spouse is cheating? One of the hardest things to deal with regarding a cheating spouse is the fact that it's difficult to really prove that they are cheating. It can be hard to actually take action and initiate a divorce if you aren't 100% certain. But you can involve a professional. A professional private investigator can be used to find hard evidence -- there are just some things you need to know.
1. Your PI Needs Information
Your PI can start from scratch with just a name -- but that's going to take time, and private investigators bill by the hour. The more information you can give your private investigator, the faster and more thoroughly they'll be able to work. Begin by writing down everything that you've personally found suspicious about your spouse's actions.
2. The Importance of Evidence Depends on State
Not all states consider the fault of a person during a divorce. That means that even if you catch your spouse cheating, it's not going to matter; it isn't going to be taken into account by the courts. But even though all states allow for no-fault divorces, some states still recognize fault divorces, and infidelity may affect the distribution of marital property and support in these types of divorces. It really depends on your local laws. Take some time to call a local divorce attorney before you go too far.
3. ...But Evidence Can Still Help Psychologically
Even if your state doesn't allow the option for a fault divorce, evidence can still help you when you're trying to decide on whether to get one. Certainty can be very important for those who are making such a critical decision. A PI will be able to provide you a third-party answer on whether or not you can continue to trust your spouse.
4. And Your Spouse May Be Doing Something Else...
If your spouse is cheating, there's the possibility that they intend to leave you. And if that's true, they could already have started hiding money. A PI doesn't just follow around a spouse to catch them cheating on you. They can also look up records to see whether your spouse could be preparing for a divorce themselves. If this is the case, you'll need these records to show a true accounting of your marital assets.
Whenever you are unsure of your spouse's fidelity, a private investigator from a company like ICU Investigations may be able to help. But remember that a private investigator cannot work miracles; they still need some basic information to begin. Once you do have evidence of your spouse's cheating, you can then figure out the next step.